Love Clinic: 5 Reasons Why Relationships Fail & The Possible Solutions

Good morning lovers of UnilagHowfar.com, its yet another bright and beautiful Friday morning. How was your night and how are the plans for the day? Hope won't be running on a busy schedule just like me?

Apart from entertaining, updating, informing, reporting, gisting and gossiping... *winkz winkz* about some events and some things happening around town, the well being of the lovely readers and viewers of UnilagHowfar.com is so paramount to me.

 And out of my curiosity on 'Why So Many Relationships DON'T Last This Days', I came up with an article, perhaps you will have one or two to learn and make some adjustments towards having a happier healthier relationship..... read below:

1. Lack of Caution/Self Control: To even start with, I wonder how someone who has no control or fail on the side of self discipline either on what you say, what you do, where you go and people you keep, will go along without having issues even with his/herself now talking of the next person.

The failure to keep a check on what you say on social media The angry Facebook status telling everyone about your breakup, followed by a lovey-dovey one revealing your reconciliation seven hours later is beyond unnecessary. After a while, everyone will hate the thought of your relationship being a thing that exists. This goes for any association you carry in life. If you publicly displayed every qualm you've ever had with your mother, or your co-worker, or your sister, or your cat, people would assume it’s a toxic connection, which probably isn't even the case. If love isn't supposed to keep records – specifically the unpleasant ones, logging every mishap for friends and family to see is bad news and detrimental to your relationship. Suddenly everyone close to you isn't a big fan of your partner, and that’s a result of your over-sharing.

2. Lack of commitment: The doubt and fear of being dumped along the line, which in most cases, directly or indirectly lead to unwillingness to give all into your relationship. Filled up with the thought of your past or witnessed experience, there’s no comfort or ability to fully trust your partner. Let me tell you, Living in such a vague, foggy dating world puts you even on higher risk of your heart being broken. Treat your partner exactly like who he or she is. Form your opinions base on his/her commitments towards you and not on the drama of your MR, Miss or Mrs. Ex who has only exist in the past.

As said by 2  Face Idibia "even though you have to TRUST NOBODY yet you have to TRUST SOMEONE.

3. Emulating Peer Groups: I can say without any doubt, that so many people are ruled and guided through life, not on their own decisions, principles or understanding but the excerpt of others who even have no clue of what their next moment holds. How sad!!!

This ain't anything so close to someone criticizing your relationship but you not being able to take charge and responsibilities of things that happen in your life. "Your Life is yours, ask for God's leading and live it your own way'

4. Unrealist Expectations:  When you anticipate the future to an unrealistic extreme, the result may not be fulfilling. If you focus more on what you stand to benefit more than what you have to offer, this may in turn leads to lack of satisfaction which is mostly the highway to infidelity in a relationship. Let there be a check on what you have to offer and what you stand to benefit. Relationship is not a one way traffic... bless and be blessed. 

5. The Steady Will Of Giving Up: The will to fight for a person and the love you share is an endangered attribute, vastly disappearing from existence. We had another argument, let’s call it quits. We don’t share the same plans for the future so instead of finding a way that works for both of us, let’s head our separate ways. 

Oh dear lover! Where is your strength to make wrong turns right? Where is the willingness to swallow your pride, talk it out, laugh it off, do whatsoever you can to fix things instead of tossing them aside for a new Mr or Miss right.  Relationship quitters are an unfortunate commonality these days, and that’s  because people are increasingly willing to choose retaliation over resolution and leave over love.

Will I ever give up on you when God never take my life? Oh no!  I will love you till the end of times. My name remains Tayo Lawal (CEO UnilagHowfar.com)

Enjoy every moment of your Friday. Kisses

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