Thursday 28 August 2014

Love Clinic: How To Love Her Truly

Love is the greatest thing that ever happened to mankind. I believe in love. But a lot of us (guys) often mistaken love for that popular three letter word that you and I know all too well. 

We limit love to that intimacy or (physiological magnetism) that draws us towards our own female specie, that makes you want to get close, feel her and embrace her every femininity. You Wanna touch every delicate part of her, wanna kiss her lips, neck and even fondle her soft earlobes. 


Well, that's all good and fine, but still I tell you, that's not the true definition of love. That in it's reality is lust and shear infatuation, cos the end point of such "love" will leave one or both emotionally severed. 

Now, let me ask you this; IS SEX AN EVIDENCE OR A PROOF OF TRUE LOVE? 

To a score of answers, thoughts and reactions that might have been generated. It is never a mistake to be concerned more about her happiness and not just the common three letter word. Encourage her, support her, share with her, and help her become a better person.

 Love isn't about going out or dating a girl. That comes in, when there is a bond created and intimacy has been built and there is need to take the relationship to a greater level. The idea of... you see a girl, you love her, and you just wanna ask her out, is a misconception of what love really is. It is called lust.

 Again, I say, love isn't all about sex. Love is seeking the good of another, without expecting a return or a reward. True love is loving her enough to get married to her. True love is loving her even when she doesn't look so great like she used to be. True love is abstaining from sex, even when the trend says that. True love is being there for her in all her good and bad times, tolerating her imperfections, patiently helping her grow. 
True love is God.

WHAT IS TRUE LOVE TO YOU?

#Love Doctor

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1 comment:

  1. you who have written these things, do you put into practice what you wrote ?
    You are right in saying love isn't all about sex and fortunately not all guys are the same.
    It's really nice what you are doing, keep it up!

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